Things you wish your husband wouldn't just come and say without warning

I am beyond speech about this. So... I guess, a mega reader warning if you are not up for hearing about a child tragedy. Here is the link to the news story. Please don't click if you don't want to read this news.

News that actually, for me right here and now, dwarfs anything else I have ever heard. I feel absolutely ill, having just found out about this unthinkable case.